I wrote an Open Letter to all the mommas grieving on this Mother’s Day. If you know of a loss mom, would you please share this with her and pray for her? I want her to feel surrounded in God’s love, grace, and strength tomorrow. Dear Momma (who has suffered miscarriage, stillbirth, infant loss, or child loss), I see you. …
Reflections on Palm Sunday and Holy Week
Troll. No, not the fun-loving, long-haired, singing and dancing ones. I’m talking about the kind of troll that says something rude and just flat out ugly. That’s the kind of troll who decided to comment on something I posted on Instagram yesterday. He (someone I don’t know) commented on a video of my son reading from the Jesus Storybook Bible …
Self-Care is NOT Selfish! Why Taking Care of Yourself is So Important
Homeschooling my elementary-aged son. Keeping my 18 month old busy. Continuing to do full-time ministry in a new and different way from home. And supporting my husband and his full-time ministry work. I don’t know about you, but I was a stressball last week. I’m a structured person who thrives on routine so last week hit me hard. I carried …
Do You Not Remember? How Remembering who God is Can Calm your Anxious Heart
“Breathe in…Breathe out…Calm down,” I repeated to myself again and again. It was barely 7:00am, and thoughts about all the things I needed to do that day were swirling around in my mind. Soon, my anxiety over the busyness of the coming months turned that swirl into a Cat 5 hurricane. A heavy weight began crushing my chest. Every minute …
Confessions of an Adoptive Mom
Gosh, I can’t believe I’m about to admit this but here it goes… A couple of months ago, my husband pointed out how I had been responding harshly to my son. Even small things that B said or did were met with irritability and anger. I got so upset when he confronted me about it that I went to my …
Grieving the Daughter I Barely Knew
Our little toddler, Haven, turned 17 months old on February 15th. She’s silly, loves playing with her dolls, and is saying new words all the time. She loves to laugh and dance. She gives me lots of hugs and kisses and snuggles! She loves being around other kiddos, and she has a fierce love for her older brother. She wants …
4 Ways to Let a Bereaved Person Know You Care Years after Their Loss
I’ve been wanting to write a post like this for a long time. It’s not my typical kind of post, but as I minister to more and more loss moms, it’s evident that this topic is something that needs to be addressed. So, here we go! So often we do a really good job helping someone when their loved one …
To All the Mommas Who Just Don’t Feel Like They Can Mom Today
I had only been up for a couple of hours on a recent Saturday morning, and already I was doubting my ability to mom that day. I had gotten up early to spend time with God before the busyness of the day ensued. That time, which should have been centered on Bible reading and prayer, was instead a disheveled mess …
A Prayer for the New Year
“Make me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; for you I wait all the day long.” Psalm 25:4-5 I love this prayer from Scripture. Here, David, who penned a lot of the psalms, is asking God three things: for God …
Spending Time with God When You Don’t Have Time and You Don’t Want To
Confession: My time with God is not always a priority. Let’s be real. My time with God each day has major competition. Things like my phone, my kids waking up early, extra sleep, and even exercise are always standing ready to take the time I should be spending with him and use it in any other way than praying and …